Not too long ago I
celebrated my birthday. I have reached a milestone age in my life and it was
worth celebrating. I didn’t have any party plans in mind so I just spent it
praying and in the evening my siblings, my mother and my dear friend came over
to celebrate with me, my wife and my son. It was a good day. People called me from
far and wide, I received various congratulatory text messages and it all had
the makings of a glorious day
But when you hit a
landmark age in your life, you can’t help but reflect on the things that have
happened. So I did, I started taking a critical look at my life and I must
admit I was very disappointed. I wasn’t making as much money as I would want to
and a few things that I expected to have happened were either not happening or
they were happening contrary to my expectation. This frustrated me and it kind
of numbed me to all the love I was receiving for the rest of the day. I wasn’t
involved in what was going on around me any longer. Here I was surrounded by
family, who were being entertained by my bright baby boy and all I could do was
sulk internally and be aloof.
Of course my wife knows
me better than anybody and she asked me what was up. I proceeded to explain to her in few words the
things bothering me and she tried her best to cheer me up and remind me that I was
loved. I should stop focusing on the bad stuff, it will be there tomorrow.
Instead I should focus on what was going on at that moment in time and enjoy
the day. That sounds awfully similar to Jesus’ admonition that we should not
worry about today, neither should we worry about tomorrow (Matthew 6: 25-34).
At first I found it
hard to shake off the dark cloud over me. But then it became more and more
obvious to me that the more important stuff in life were standing right there
in front of me; good friends, a beautiful and loving wife, an awesome son and a
loving family, divine health for me and for all that surround me. These things
are priceless and eternal. The things I was worried about (it all boiled down
to money anyway) are temporary, they do not have eternal value. They were just
things that empty people hold on to in order to cover the loneliness in their
hearts.
It is always important
to focus on the good that God is doing in our lives instead of all the evil
Satan and this fallen world confronts us with.
“EVERY GOOD AND PERFECT GIFT IS FROM ABOVE, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom is no
variableness, neither shadow of turning” James 1:17 KJV (emphasis
mine)
All the good things in
our lives is from God, whether we know it or not. He does not do evil and I
found out that I only had to take a cursory look at my life to see those gifts.
He that gave me these things of value will also take care of our other needs.
I know it can be hard
to see these things sometimes. Life hits us hard, and sometimes we don’t have
many people like I just said on our side. But I encourage you to take a long
hard look at your life, you’ll find something good and that thing is from God.
Focus on that, and let God see you through your challenges
No one is rich enough 2 buy yesterday, but if u work hard 2morrow can be yours, open field is the name, hard work is the game, money is the gain. The greatest gift I have ever seen in life is that of our Lord Jesus Christ given to mankind by God.
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